What is Power To Change
A Mindset. A Way of Looking at Life.
I've thought about this for a very long time. Like most people, my life has had its ups and downs. I will never compare my journey to others—not to measure it as better or worse, but to honor that each of our lives is uniquely our own. This is my story of The Power To Change, and I share it hoping it might illuminate something in yours.
Life Is a Series of Choices
Life is a culmination of endless choices. Every moment of every day, you make decisions that ripple forward. Think about it: you chose to visit this website. You chose to read this page. Those are just the beginning.
Consider a single day. You chose to wake early or sleep in. You decided on that morning coffee—or the quick run to your favorite shop. Breakfast or no breakfast. Speed limit or five miles over. Fast food or a salad. Water or soda. Left turn or right turn to get where you needed to go. The outfit you're wearing right now.
I could go on forever.
But here's what matters: the total of every decision and choice you've made throughout your entire life has steered you down a path that led you to right here, right now. This moment. This exact place.
The Big Picture
Now, we all know life isn't always forgiving. We've all experienced highs and lows. What makes you happy, sad, angry, or depressed is entirely specific to you—no one else's experience mirrors yours exactly.
Life didn't come with an owner's manual. So we make countless decisions and choices that sometimes take us places we never intended to go. We get lost. We struggle. We wonder how we got here.
But here's the truth you should understand by now: you have immense POWER as an individual.
You have the power to make every decision and choice, every moment of every day. This is the easiest part of life because we do it so naturally, so constantly, that most of the time we don't even realize we're doing it.
And there lies the problem.
The Comfort Trap
We become so comfortable with our routines. Comfortable in our jobs. Comfortable in our lives. We know what to expect. We feel safe. We feel normal.
This applies whether life is going well or poorly.
If life is good: You've made decisions that led you here. Every choice dictates where your future goes. But comfort can become a cage. Being normal and safe restricts us from living our lives to their fullest. What if you broke from that comfortable life? What if you did something different, saw something new, tried something new, learned something new?
If life is difficult: We've all been there—so overwhelmed by the situation that we choose ways to cope, to cover it up. Drugs. Alcohol. Bad relationships. Bad jobs. Destructive surroundings. The list is nearly endless. And even in these dark times, we become comfortable—or perhaps more accurately, complacent—with our pain.
Regardless of where you are, the pattern is the same: we become comfortable because of CHANGE. And CHANGE is sometimes the hardest thing in life for us to face.
The Fear of Change
With CHANGE comes fear. With CHANGE comes uncertainty. And when we let ourselves fear it, we prevent ourselves from becoming who we're meant to be.
But here's what I've learned: Think of a time you wanted something badly. A new car. A house. A person you loved. A dream you couldn't stop thinking about. When you truly realized you wanted it, you did everything in your power to get it, didn't you? You moved mountains. You took action.
The same principle applies to your life.
When we desire something deeply enough, we do whatever it takes. When we truly realize that we have THE POWER TO CHANGE, and we want that change badly enough, we can accomplish anything.
But understand this: your power to change is something you must do for yourself and only for you. No one else can do this work. No one else can want it for you.
The Journey
This journey won't be easy. Life will continue to have its ups and downs. Change will be hard. But the outcome can be some of the most rewarding experiences of your life. And the journey itself—the transformation, the growth, the moment you realize your own power—that's something you'll carry and share for the rest of your life.
As you take on this journey, remember these truths every single day, regardless of how difficult things become:
Never Give Up.
Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow is not guaranteed. So live life for today.
Peace. Love. Unity. Respect.
You truly do have the Power To Change.
The power has always been yours. It still is.
